52 Ancestors 2022 - Week 7 - Landed

52 Ancestors 2022 - Week 7 

Landed

Fancroft

This is Fancroft, family home of the Whittens, my mother’s family, from the late 18^th century until it was sold out of the family in 2016.

My earliest record of it is as the home of my third great grandparents, William and Prudence Whitten (nee Clery, (or Cleary).  William and Prudence were married in 1780, and by the time their son Edward was born in 1795, they were living at Fancroft, just outside Roscrea in County Tipperary.

Edward was their sixth child and he and his bride, Martha Lucas also lived at Fancroft.  Death records are not clear, but Whitten family historians think that Edward was the oldest surviving son at the time of his father’s death.

Edward and Martha had 12 children.  Little is known about the first two sons, Robert (b 1822) and William (b 1823) The next three children were girls – Matilda, Eliza and Mary, and then the next son, Edward, died at the age of three.

Edward senior died in 1850, and perhaps Robert or William may have inherited Fancroft on his death, but it was John (b.1833) who eventually took over the property, and his family line which remained.

The five children who were younger than John all emigrated to Australia, but Fancroft remained strong in their memories, and they passed this on to succeeding generations.

The first to return were Anthony’s sons, Alfred and Albert, who visited in the summer of 1912.  Alf kept a diary which describes the house and many of the family they met while they were there. #

The story in the family is that John Whitten’s third son, Joseph Abraham Whitten was named as his father’s heir, but that the eldest son, Edward, who had gone to Canada, returned, burned that will and claimed Fancroft for himself.  Edward was married to Charlotte Wallace and had seven children and it appears that the first two sons both emigrated to Canada when quite young.

(When I met Marjorie in 1977, I asked her about all the emigrations to Canada and the USA in the family.  She said, “every time there was a family fight, someone emigrated”, so perhaps these two sons were at odds with Edward?)

I think that the third son, George Washington Whitten must have taken over the farm after Edward’s death in 1930.  There is a record of George and Lily and their son Eddie travelling back from Canada to Ireland in 1933, but I don’t know if they had been resident there or if it was a short visit.

George died in 1951 and I assume that this is when Marjorie took over the running of Fancroft At some stage she was joined by Billy Williams, son of her sister Frances, and he inherited the property on Marjorie’s death in 1977.

All the Australian members of the extended family who visited Fancroft have commented on the coat of arms (see below) and the enormous kitchen with its stone flagged floor and magnificent display of copper pots and blue and white china. The “Whitten descendant” who wrote a lengthy piece dated 1966 and reproduced on Tim Hobson’s “Whittens in Australia” webpage describes a busy working kitchen with a creamery and pantry and a churn still used by Marjorie twice a week.  Sadly, by the time of my sister Margie’s visit in 2012 the kitchen was empty of all but a table – Billy Williams was taking his meals with his neighbours.

When Billy died in 2016, Fancroft was put on the market and when I was there in 2017 it presented a sorry site.  We were told that the new owners had wanted only the land and had no interest in the house, which was empty and abandoned.  After 300 years in the Whitten family, it is slowly falling into disrepair.

 

 

 

#Monday 5th

In the morning we went out to Joe Whitten’s and had dinner. He has 45 Irish acres of land. Irish acres are 1¼ acres. Had tea there and met Francis Rorke who asked us to her (his?) place.

 Tuesday 6th

Went into town and had a good look through the co-operative bacon factory. Killing, scraping and singeing etc. The we called on John Mason once more. Had dinner at Luttrells, called on Daley the C of E curate who was out then back to tea at Luttrells where we met old Mrs Drought who knew Father well. After tea we went to the old Roscrea Castle. This seems to be a very old stronghold from the top of which one could see all the district round about. Singing and home.

 Wednesday 7th

Morning quiet time at Fancroft. Afternoon shooting. Evening chatting in the Home.

 Thursday 8th

Attended the Fair in Roscrea. It seemed strange to see cattle sheep and horses, pigs in the streets and the buyers and sellers chatting and driving a hard bargain. There was a fine little mob of Irish ponies, rounded up in the streets. 42 publicans in Roscrea...

  

52 Ancestors 2022 Week 13 - Sisters

 Week 13 - Sisters

                                           Violet and Nellie at rear, Alice and Weenie in front

 My grandmother Alice White was the second of Robert and Elizabeth White’s seven children and 4 of her siblings were sisters. She remained close to all of them through her long life.

First in the family was Nellie (Ellen) born in September 1888. (For a reason we will never know, her mother’s parents refused to give their permission to a marriage, despite Elizabeth’s pregnancy, so Robert and Elizabeth were not married until July 1888, the day after Elizabeth turned 21).

Nellie married at 19 to Victor John Lehman and I assume she too was pregnant at the time as baby Ann was born within eight months of the wedding.  She was the first of six children, who grew up close to their grandparents, in South Lismore.  Nellie shared her father’s love of gardening and was a very successful exhibitor at the local shows, winning 22 prizes at the South Lismore Horticultural Society Show of 1935 and also becoming a judge at other regional shows.  Two of her daughters became florists.

The marriage seems not to have been very happy – Vic was a moody and jealous man.  This came to a head one night in 1945 when he argued with a house guest who was the boyfriend of his daughter Marie – they were both living with her parents at the time.   During the night Vic took his rifle and shot the guest, then pointed the gun at Nellie, who hid from him.  When she emerged from hiding, he was gone.

The next morning, Vic’s body was discovered at the river bank near their home.  He had shot and killed himself.  Marie’s boyfriend recovered.

Nellie lived on for 42 years, with most of her extended family around her.  She died at 98 in June 1987.

The sister after Alice was Violet, born in 1893.

Like the others, Violet would have been educated to the standard of the time, finishing her formal education at the end of primary school.  I know little about her until her wedding, described in great detail in the Northern Star on 28 November, 1912.#.  Her new husband was Roy (Royal) Goldsmith, born in Napier, NZ,  who was a tailor with a business in Lismore.  I don’t know much about their lives but they had two children, Edwin (Eddie) born in 1914 and Edna (b. 1916). Eddie Goldsmith grew up as a mate of my father in law, Pat McCann, and was the best man at his wedding to Kathleen in 1936.

Violet and Roy are both buried in Lismore. She was 78 when she died – not a long life by the standards of the family.

I know very little about the next sister, too. Eliza Jane was born in 1895 and was immediately dubbed “Weenie”, a nickname she carried all her life. (I remember Alice referring to her as “Ween” when she was very old).  Weenie married James Henry “Jim” Wood when she was only 17.  They had five children and spent most of their married life in Nimbin, where Jim was a baker.  He died at only 51, and a few years later Weenie remarried.  Her second husband was Francis Harley, a dog trainer, and they lived in North Lismore.

Weenie was only 64 when she died in 1959.

I have a postcard that Weenie wrote to Alice in about 1910.

 

The youngest girl in the family was Mabel May, always known as “Sis”.  She was born in 1900 and outlived all her siblings except George, the baby of the family.

Sis married Walter Day in 1920, and they had five children in the next 11 years.  Two of their daughters, (Joyce b. 1923 and Merle b 1929) are still alive at the time of writing. Their son, Alan, died as a small child in 1927.

Apart from a short time in Sydney, Sis lived in South Lismore all her life, then moved to a Lismore Nursing Home.  Interviewed for the Northern Star when she was 88, she recalled the day that her father brought Billy Hughes home for lunch.  Hughes was campaigning in Lismore and Robert White would naturally have been involved in providing hospitality.

She died at the age of 91.

 

 

 

# I think the elaborate nature of this suggests that Violet was the first of Robert and Elizabeth’s daughters not to have been pregnant at the time of her marriage and therefore, in the manner of the times, able to have a big church wedding.

52 Ancestors 2022 Week 3 Favourite Photo

 52 Ancestors 2022 Week 3

Favourite Photo

 

I love these two photos, the only ones I have of my mother as a baby.  I particularly like the contrast between the formal pose of the five children and the very ragamuffin look of the snapshot.

 Mum looks less than a year old in the group photo, so it was taken in 1925.  Her oldest brother, Keith (b 1912), and oldest sister, Ruth (b 1915), are standing behind her.  Missing between them is their  brother, Jackie, who died when he was 6 years old,  in 1920.

 These two older siblings were too much older than Mum to be playmates and both were married while Mum was a young teenager.  Ruth’s marriage took her away from Quirindi, their home town, and Mum saw her again on only  a few occasions before her untimely death in 1945, although they wrote regular letters to each other. 

 Connie, born 1919, was five years older than Mum so she was a teenager while Mum was still a small child. She looks very serious in this photo, holding a spray of flowers in her lap and with her feet neatly crossed.   Mum recalled her dressing up for parties and balls and doing some of the dances of the time – the Charleston and the Black Bottom. 

 Nearest in age to Mum was Royce, born in 1921, and he sits on Mum’s left with a characteristic lop-sided grin and one leg tucked up – a surprisingly informal touch in such a formally posed picture.   

 It is Royce who is the older child in the other photo.  Until the arrival of Joan (b 1928), the last of the family, it was he who was Mum’s closest playmate. 

 This photo has a handwritten note from my grandmother on the back, which suggests that it was sent to Mum many years later. It says, “I am putting in this for you to keep of you and Royce of yourselves in gone days.  Mum” 

 It is always poignant to see the handwriting of someone who has been gone so long.

 Both the children are rugged up against the cold, although Royce wears short pants as little boys always did. 

 The car is interesting.  My grandfather had always had horses and carriages for his trips to town until the accident in 1924 which threw his wife and children into the creek and broke my pregnant grandmother’s hip.  It looks as if he had bought a car by 1926, when this photo was taken.  It’s a T model Ford -very popular at the time. 

 

52 Ancestors 2022 - Week 2 Favourite Find

 

52 Ancestors 2022 Week 2

Favourite Find

 This is not, strictly speaking, a “find”.  I always knew it was there.  But having a close inspection of my grandmother’s wedding dress, almost 110 years after the wedding, was very exciting and very moving.

 I have written before (52 Ancestors 2020 – Week 41) about visiting the museum in Quirindi, NSW and being able to see my grandmother’s dress.  I had seen it before, when I was about 11 years old, and my sisters and I had actually tried to wear it.  Even at 11,  I was bigger than my tiny grandmother.

 Fortunately, it was soon after this (before it could be ruined by other fascinated children), that my grandmother donated it to the museum.

 Knowing of my impending visit, the volunteers of the museum had retrieved the dress from its tissue-lined archive box and laid it out for me.  For many years it had actually been on display, worn by a mannequin, but the fabric is now too frail for it to hang.

 

A description of the wedding appeared in the Tamworth Daily Observer on 16 August, 1911.  In it, the dress is described thus:

The bride wore a dress of cream silk striped ninon over glace silk, richly decorated with pearl and silver trimmings, with the customary wreath and veil.

The cream silk has darkened now, and the glace silk underlining has disintegrated in places.  The silver trimmings have tarnished to a rather dramatic dark grey, but the pearls are still intact.  The rich embroidery is still evident, and most of the silk tassels on the sleeves and hem remain.

The newspaper account continues:

She carried a handsome shower bouquet of white hyacinths, camellias, snow drops and asparagus fern, the gifts of the bridegroom also a costly diamond ring. 

It doesn’t mention the horseshoe attached to the bouquet, which was traditional for brides of the era.  Still attached to its ribbon, it lies with the dress.

I am so grateful that the volunteers of this small country town museum care for this precious relic of my family’s – and the town’s – history.

52 Ancestors 2022 Week 1

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2022 - Week 1

Foundations

The foundations of my interest in family history are the stories.

I was lucky to grow up with parents who talked about their childhoods and told their family stories.  My mother was a legendary storyteller who told stories that were funny or sad with the attendant laughter or tears as part of the tale.  My father was less emotional, but I realised when I began to think about this theme, that I knew a great deal about his family from the stories he told.  He was particularly attached to his mother’s family, the Whites, and very proud of their contribution to the life of his home town, Lismore, NSW.

So, when I began to research the family history, it was to flesh out the bones of these stories from my childhood.  To know more about the people who they spoke of, and perhaps to verify too that the stories were true.

I was curious about the people I had no stories for.  Who, for example, was my maternal great grandmother who had disappeared so totally from my grandmother’s life in her early childhood that she was believed to be dead, only to reappear when her death was announced some 46 years later?

And what was the real reason for my paternal grandmother’s often-voiced antipathy towards my great-uncle Michael?  Was he really an alcoholic wastrel?

Over 40 years of research I have found the answers to both of these questions and uncovered many more secrets and lies within the family stories.

In 2022, I will be looking for more.